THE DREAM

I HAD THIS DREAM FOR YEARS AND YEARS I WOULD BE WALKING ON THE BEACH THINKING IS THERE A MR RIGHT FOR ME, EVERY NIGHT THE SAME MAN CAME TO ME IN MY DREAMS WE LAUGHED WE WALKED WE TALKED WE KISSED WE MADE LOVE THERE WASN'T ANYTHING WE DIDN'T DO AND WE WERE SO HAPPY, THEN I WOULD WAKE UP ROLL OVER TO KISS HIM AND HE WASN'T THERE. WELL THE SAME DREAM DAY AFTER DAY WEEK AFTER WEEK, THEN SNAP I FOUND HIM HE WAS REAL HE WAS PERFECT. WE LAUGHED WE CRYED WE DANCED WE DINE, WE MADE LOVE, WE WERE JUST RIGHT, THINGS STARTED TO CHANGE, IT'S LIKE GOD TOOK OUR FAITH, PEOPLE WOULD TALK, PEOPLE WOULD LIE THEY WERE SO JEALOUS OF US NOT ONLY BECAUSE WE WERE PERFECT BUT WE WERE ONE. WELL LIFE CHANGED WE CHANGED TIME TOOK US APART, BUT YET THE DREAM IS STILL THERE LIKE A SIGN FROM ABOVE "DON'T GIVE UP FAITH WILL COME BACK THERE IS ATIME AND A PLACE" THE POINT OF THIS IS YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT YOU GOT TILL SOMEONE OR SOMETHING TAKES IT AWAY. NO MATTER WHO OR WHAT YOU ARE BELIEVE IN YOUR DREAMS THEY WILL COME TRUE...

YOU KNOW SOMETIMES YOUR HEART ACHES AND SOMETIMES IT BREAKS, BUT YOU STILL WAKE UP AND YOU STILL GO ON. I LEARNED ALOT TODAY ABOUT MYSELF AND HOW I LET PEOPLE GET CLOSE THEN I PUSH THEM AWAY AND THEN WONDER WHAT I DID WRONG. I AM NOT PERFECT I AM JUST ME, I LOVE 100% AND GIVE 100%, ALL I EVER WANTED WAS TO FEEL SAFE FROM THE PASS AND KNOW I WAS TRUELY ON THE SAME ROAD, BUT YET I MESSED IT UP. JUST KNOW I AM CHANGEING ALL THE BAD STUFF AND I WILL HAVE MY TRUE LOVE WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT. I HAVE YOU IN MY HEART AND I HOPE THERE IS STILL PART OF ME IN YOURS.I NOW HAVE A WONDERFUL PERSON WHO IS STILL MY FRIEND AND I KNOW GOD WILL SEND THE LIGHT TO US SOON.. ALL MY LOVE TO MY FRIENDS.. I WILL BLOG SOON AGAIN..

WALLEE

IT'S SO NICE TO SMILE AGAIN AND FEEL ALIVE. EVERYDAY I THANK GOD FOR MY TRUE FRIENDS AND MY SPECIAL ONES, I NEVER THOUGHT THAT MY HEART WOULD COME ALIVE AGAIN, BOY WAS I WRONG.. TO THE ONE I LOVE WITH EVERY BREATH I TAKE I THANK YOU FOR BEING THERE, UNDERSTANDING ME, LOVIN ME, AND TRUSTING ME..

trust

Trust is both and emotional and logical act. Emotionally, it is where you expose your vulnerabilities to people, but believing they will not take advantage of your openness. Logically, it is where you have assessed the probabilities of gain and loss, calculating expected utility based on hard performance data, and concluded that the person in question will behave in a predictable manner. In practice, trust is a bit of both. I trust you because I have experienced your trustworthiness and because I have faith in human nature.

We feel trust. Emotions associated with trust include companionship, friendship, love, agreement, relaxation, comfort.

There are a number of different ways we can define trust. Here are the dimensions of trust and consequent definitions.

Predictability
It is a normal part of the human condition to be constantly forecasting ahead. We build internal models of the world based both on our experiences and what others tell us, and then use these to guess what will happen next. This allows us to spot and prepare for threats and also make plans to achieve our longer-term goals.

The greatest unpredictability is at 50%; a reliable enemy can be preferable to an unpredictable friend, as at least we know where we are with them.

Definition 1: Trust means being able to predict what other people will do and what situations will occur. If we can surround ourselves with people we trust, then we can create a safe present and an even better future.

Value exchange
Most of what we do with other people is based around exchange, which is the basis for all businesses as well as simple relationships. At its simplest, it is exchange of goods. I will swap you two sheep for one cow. It is easy to calculate the value in such material bargaining. Things get more complex when less tangible forces come into play. A parent exchanges attention for love. A company exchanges not only pay but good working conditions for the intellectual and manual efforts of its workforce.

Value exchange works because we each value things differently. If I have a whole flock of sheep but no milk, then I can do business with a person who has a herd of cows but no clothes. This principle of reciprocity is what binds societies together.

Trust in value exchange occurs when we do not know fully whether what we are receiving is what we expect. When we buy a car, don’t want to be sold a ringer which the seller knows is faulty. When I get advice in business, I want it to be based on facts, not wild opinions.

Definition 2: Trust means making an exchange with someone when you do not have full knowledge about them, their intent and the things they are offering to you

love

1.Say it. When you say the words "I Love You", they should carry with them the desire to show someone that you love them, not what you simply want to feel. When you say it make sure you really mean it and are willing to do anything for that special person.
2.Empathize. Put yourself in someone else's shoes. Rather than impose your own expectations or attempt to control them, try to understand how they feel, where they come from, and who they are. Realize how they could also love you back just as well.
3.Love unconditionally. If you cannot love another person without attaching stipulations, then it is not love at all, but deep-seated opportunism (one who makes the most of an advantage, often unmindful of others). If your interest is not in the other person as such, but rather in how that person can enhance your experience of life, then it is not unconditional. If you have no intention of improving that person’s life, or allowing that person to be themselves and accepting them as they are, and not who you want them to be, then you are not striving to love them unconditionally.
4.Expect nothing in return. That doesn't mean you should allow someone to mistreat or undervalue you. It means that giving love does not guarantee receiving love. Try loving just for the sake of love. Realize that someone may have a different way of showing his or her love for you, do not expect to be loved back in exactly the same way.
5.Realize it can be lost. If you realize that you can lose the one you love, then you have a greater appreciation of what you have. Think how lucky you are to have someone to love. Don't make an idol of the person you love. This will place them under undue pressure and will likely result in you losing them

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Be strong honey, I love you too!


A man escapes from prison where he has been for 15 years. He breaks into a house to look for money and guns and finds a young couple in bed.

He orders the guy out of bed and ties him to a chair, while tying the girl to the bed he gets on top of her, kisses her neck, then gets up and goes into the bathroom .

While he's in there, the husband tells his wife: "Listen, this guy's an escaped convict, look at his clothes! He probably spent lots of time in jail and hasn't seen a women in years. I saw how he kissed your neck " if he wants sex, don't resist, don't complain, do whatever he tells you .
Satisfy him no matter how much he nauseates you. This guy is probably very dangerous. If he gets angry, he'll kill us. Be strong, honey. I love you ."

To which his wife responds: "He wasn't kissing my neck. He was whispering in my ear. He told me he was gay, thought you were cute, and asked me if we had any Vaseline. I told him it was in the bathroom. Be strong honey, I love you too !!"

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